ealdanagutiérrez; 001

[adequacies]

While I know there are many more pressing matters at hand, there's been a distinct problem I've noticed onboard in the most recent karaoke nights.  I won’t name names, but I have noticed a lack of rhythm that can be rectified with a little practice. Luckily, I am here to help, and there is no singing required.

This Friday, I'll be hosting a group salsa class in the community room.   You don't need to have danced before; all prior skills you need are the ability to count to eight and how to stand up straight.

All are welcome, though anyone who is judgmental towards others just learning will be asked to leave.  I don't have patience for that, and it's supposed to be fun.

See you Friday at seven.  Wear comfortable shoes.

Comments

cava

[witlessbay]

what

cava

[adequacies]

I feel […] like we were past this and we are clearly not so I’m not going to push.

cava

[witlessbay]

past what?

cava

[adequacies]

The discussion the other day where you said you were not angry but were clearly an.

cava

[witlessbay]

you made it pretty clear you didn't want me to talk about eli with you

cava

[adequacies]

Because I didn’t agree with you that it was romantic.

Because I as

There is quite literally nothing I can say without bringing up the question I asked so sure. If that’s what you took from it.

cava

[witlessbay]

what i took from it was that i was teasing you about something good in your life and you brought up the biggest mistake in mine.

cava

[adequacies]

It was not enjoyable or amusing to be on the receiving end of what you deem to be inevitable overlaid on a situation that might never go anywhere.

I didn’t mean to hurt you when I asked. I was trying to point out that it was a little ridiculous in my eyes to view every […] time to be rooted in romance when other efforts to get through how I didn’t think the same way you did failed.

I’m sorry.

cava

[witlessbay]

thanks. i'm sorry i didn't hit pause earlier. do you want

cava

[adequacies]

It’s done.

I wish you would have not stamped down your anger. This feels worse.

cava

[witlessbay]

it's hard to let myself get mad when it's about something i did

cava

[adequacies]

I don’t even know if I should talk with you about this at all n I think […] it will always be hard, but ignoring that anger isn’t going to make it easier indefinitely.

cava

[witlessbay]

yeah, probably

cava

[adequacies]

You’re not the worst thing you’ve ever done, or the best thing.

Please remember that I believe that of you the next time I piss you off. And actually just get angry with me and tell me. Please.

cava

[witlessbay]

can you do the same for me?

cava

[adequacies]

I will […] do my best to not bottle it up. And I am reserving the right to be very dramatic about it.

cava

[witlessbay]

im used to that

cava

[adequacies]

It is regular levels of dramatics currently. Low, even.

cava

[witlessbay]

have you met my dont worry about it, ev. i can handle that more than not knowing where the line is

cava

[adequacies]

Has saying ‘don’t worry about it’ ever stopped anyone from doing so?

cava

[witlessbay]

what are you worried about

cava

[adequacies]

I don’t consider everyone here a friend, but I do consider you a very good friend, and I don’t want to lose that.

cava

[witlessbay]

you cant get rid of me by showing emotion. thats just being human

cava

[adequacies]

That goes both ways.

cava

[witlessbay]

yeah, i know. are we good?