slynfield 001

[foundlostfound]

I just got here.
What are the things you all hate that I should avoid doing.

[...] In the interest of assimilating quickly, not reverse-hazing, which would be extremely bold.

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[murphyy]

i'm asking more like, how're you feeling about this?

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[agyieus]

very emotionally regulated

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[murphyy]

then you should be able to name some emotions for me.

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[agyieus]

this isn't a thing we're going to do

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[murphyy]

pol.

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[agyieus]

i don't want to feel like i'm in therapy or an intervention when i'm talking to you

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[murphyy]

that's n i i j right.

ac. after a bit.

[murphyy]

you don i'm n [...] just cause i want to know where your head's at doesn't mean i'm trying to be your therapist.

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[agyieus]

we can talk about it without you asking me to identify and list 5 emotions i'm feeling

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[murphyy]

okay. you tell me what i'm supposed to say then.

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[agyieus]

you could ask me questions about her. or our relationship.

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[murphyy]

how did y what was it did it fe [...] what was it like?

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[agyieus]

what was what like? our life?

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[murphyy]

i guess so, yeah.

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[agyieus]

it wasn't bad. we met working in search and rescue. both had demanding jobs. we didn't get to see each other a lot but it was nice when we could.

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[murphyy]

you d is d'yo [...] did it feel real?

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[agyieus]

yeah, it felt real.

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[murphyy]

still does or nah?

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[agyieus]

now we're basically strangers.

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[murphyy]

how d that's gotta be weird.

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[agyieus]

it is.

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[murphyy]

well. won't stay strangers for very long now that she's here.

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[agyieus]

as if i didn't have enough people i need to get to know already.

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[murphyy]

you don't have to get to know everyone, pol. you can take your time with it.

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[agyieus]

i can't just ignore people.